‘Young people should feel empowered to lead wherever they find themselves.’ – Ayisat Olabimpe Agbaje-Okunade

‘Young people should feel empowered to lead wherever they find themselves.’ – Ayisat Olabimpe Agbaje-Okunade

Ayisat Olabimpe Agbaje-Okunade is the Executive Secretary of the Lagos State Lateef Jakande Leadership Academy, a notable agency dedicated to mentoring the next generation of exceptional young Nigerian leaders.

She began her illustrious career in 2014 as a legal and administrative assistant at Kimberly Wayne and Diamond Solicitors in London. In 2015, she joined the Hyde Group in London as an accomplished project officer. That same year, she was honored as one of the promising young beneficiaries of the prestigious King’s Trust (formerly Prince’s Trust) Enterprise Grant, Mentoring, and Support program.

She then served as the account manager at The Challenge in Waterloo, London, where she fostered enduring and impactful relationships with marginalised young people, local authorities, and community organisations. Ayisat previously served as the Senior Special Assistant for Development Partnerships and Economic Planning to the Governor of Lagos State. Prior to that, she was a special assistant to the former governor of Kaduna State and an alumna of the Kashim Ibrahim Fellowship.

Ayisat is also an accomplished author and researcher, and her work on gender equality and public service has been recognised and discussed at international platforms, including Equality Now. She founded the AA Initiative, a nonprofit organisation dedicated to supporting and reintegrating orphans and vulnerable children across Nigeria, which has helped over 5,000 individuals to date. Driven by the belief that she represents not just herself but an entire generation, Ayisat Olabimpe Agbaje-Okunade continues to inspire others through her unwavering dedication to social change and community empowerment.

What does transformational leadership mean to you in the context of Nigeria’s current socio-political landscape?
In the context of Nigeria’s current socio-political evolution, transformational leadership is not just a concept to me, it is personal. It is a way of thinking, acting, and serving that is deeply rooted in empathy, vision, and responsibility. It means daring to believe in what is possible for this country, even when the path is difficult. It is about waking up every day committed to making a difference, not because it is easy, but because it is necessary.

When I speak of transformational leadership, I speak of leadership that inspires people to rise above limitations. I think of leadership that challenges the norm, that prioritizes people over position, service over self, and impact over applause. It is about lighting a fire in others to believe in a better Nigeria and to work for it, together. For me, that is the true power of leadership: not in titles or proximity to power, but in how many people you inspire to think bigger, do better, and serve with integrity.

We are a nation of immense potential. Our young people are bold, creative, and full of promise. Our culture is vibrant, and our resources; human and natural, are enviable. But potential alone is not enough. It must be stewarded by leaders who see beyond the moment. Leaders who are willing to build structures that outlive them. Leaders who know that real change is not cosmetic, it is structural, cultural, and deeply human.

At the Lateef Jakande Leadership Academy (LJLA), I have seen firsthand what happens when young people are given the right tools, mentorship, and opportunities. They thrive. They take ownership. They begin to imagine themselves as part of the solution. That, to me, is the heart of transformational leadership, creating an ecosystem where people are not just spectators but active participants in shaping their country’s future.

Transformational leaders must have courage, yes, but also compassion. They must listen, learn, and lead with humility. They must be willing to take hard decisions, not for personal gain, but because the outcome is better for the many. Nigeria doesn’t lack talent. What we need are more leaders who are grounded in values and driven by a vision of collective progress. That is what I strive to model and nurture every day.

There is something deeply human about this kind of leadership. It requires you to be present, to be emotionally intelligent, to understand that policies affect real people, and to never lose sight of that. As a leader, I carry the weight of that responsibility, but also the joy of knowing that leadership, done right, can truly change lives.

So, in today’s Nigeria, transformational leadership is about building bridges between generations, between ideas, between people and their government. It is about unlocking the greatness we already have within us and creating a country where everyone, regardless of background, has the opportunity to lead, to serve, and to thrive. That’s the Nigeria I believe in. That’s the leadership we owe her.

Tell us your vision for LJLA and how do you see it shaping the future of Nigeria’s leadership pipeline and youth development?
My vision for LJLA is grounded in one truth I hold dear, that the future of this country depends on the kind of leaders we choose to invest in today. This Academy was created to be a structured, intentional space where young change-driven Nigerians can be groomed, mentored, and given the tools they need to lead with purpose, not position. We are not hoping leadership will magically emerge. We are preparing people for it, deliberately and with discipline.

I see the Academy growing into a world-class institution known across Nigeria, across Africa, and beyond for producing leaders who are thoughtful, competent, and deeply committed to the public good. Leaders who understand that leadership is not about status or control, but about service, stewardship, and solving problems for the benefit of others. I want LJLA to be the kind of place where the best young minds are molded not just to lead projects or programs, but to shape the character of institutions, influence public policy, and contribute meaningfully to nation-building.

One of the things we are very intentional about is the way we combine academic insight with real-life exposure. Our Fellows are not just reading books or writing papers. They are embedded in the very system they are being trained to understand and eventually lead. They engage directly with senior public officials, contribute to policy conversations, and experience firsthand the demands of governance. This kind of practical immersion makes a world of difference. It removes idealism and replaces it with informed vision. It teaches that leadership is not glamorous, it is work. But it is meaningful work, and when done well, it can transform lives.

Beyond skills, we are equally focused on values. I say this all the time: leadership without character is dangerous. So we talk about integrity, humility, discipline, and resilience as much as we talk about data analysis, budgeting, or governance structures. Because we know that what sustains leadership is not knowledge alone, but who you are when no one is watching. The Nigeria we all want to see will not come from one individual or one institution, it will come from a collective effort led by people who have been trained to lead with sincerity, selflessness, and strategy.

I am also proud of how the Academy contributes to youth development more broadly. In a country where young people are often told to wait their turn, we are giving them the opportunity to grow and contribute now. We are saying to them, “You have a role to play in shaping this country, and we are here to help you prepare for that role”. That is powerful, and it is already yielding results. The Fellows we’ve trained are working in government, in civil society, in the private sector, and they are bringing a new kind of energy, excellence, and ethics to everything they do.

As we continue to grow, I see the Academy becoming a reference point. A place people can look to and say, “This is what leadership development should look like”. I see us partnering with institutions across the world, creating new programs, expanding our curriculum, and deepening our impact. But most importantly, I see us remaining focused on our core mission: to raise leaders who will carry this country forward with clarity, courage, and compassion. That is the vision I am committed to. That is the work we are doing. And I believe, truly, that Nigeria’s future will be better because of it.

As the Academy prepares to graduate its second cohort, following the initial 29 pioneer Fellows, how do you assess the real-world impact of the leadership development programs on both the Fellows and the broader society?
The way we assess impact at LJLA goes far beyond numbers or annual reports. For us, real impact is not about how many people pass through the programme. It is about how many go on to become leaders who transform systems, shift narratives, and open doors for others. Our focus has always been on the kind of leaders we are nurturing and how their presence begins to change the spaces they enter.

When I reflect on the journey of our pioneer cohort and now the second, what excites me is not just their individual growth, but the ripple effects of that growth on their communities and institutions. We measure impact first by outcomes, by what they do with the tools and insights they have acquired here. Many of them are already leading major initiatives across government, civil society, and the private sector. Some have launched impactful social enterprises, others are shaping policy conversations, and several have been absorbed into agencies where their work is contributing directly to service delivery and governance reform.

Another powerful indicator is how institutions respond to our Fellows. It means a lot when ministries, agencies, development partners, and even private organizations now reach out asking for LJLA Fellows because they have come to recognize the quality and character that defines them. That kind of demand is an endorsement of the Academy’s credibility and a confirmation that we are building something of substance.

We also look at how our Fellows influence systems, not just their roles. Some are championing new processes in government, bringing innovation into spaces that previously relied on outdated thinking. Others are mentoring young people in their communities, starting youth development platforms, and building initiatives that will outlive them. That’s a key part of our theory of change, leaders who build others, not just themselves.

We stay in touch with our alumni. We follow their trajectories, check in on their progress, listen to their challenges, and continue to walk the journey with them. It helps us understand the long-term value of what we offer and shows us how to strengthen the program for the future. Their feedback, and even their struggles, inform how we redesign our curriculum, our mentorship structure, and our support systems.

But beyond data and dashboards, I believe deeply in the power of stories. When I sit with a Fellow and hear how the Academy helped them find clarity, or how a mentor’s words sparked a new path, or how they finally feel seen and equipped to lead, those moments are priceless. That is impact. That is legacy.

So as we prepare to graduate our second cohort, I see a pattern forming, a growing community of ethical, visionary, and service-minded leaders who are already rewriting what leadership can look like in Nigeria. And this is only the beginning. Our impact is not just in the present moment. It is in the systems our Fellows will build, the lives they will touch, and the future they will help shape for generations to come.

Nigeria has one of the youngest populations in the world, yet young people often feel disconnected from leadership opportunities. How is the Academy specifically addressing this gap?
Nigeria’s demographic reality, a predominantly young population, presents both a profound opportunity and a pressing challenge. On one hand, it signals potential for innovation, energy, and progress; on the other, it exposes a glaring disconnect between youth aspirations and leadership opportunities. Bridging this gap is at the heart of LJLA’s mission.

The Academy was created to address this very disconnect, providing a structured, credible, and practical pathway for young people to transition from potential to influence. We recognize that young Nigerians are not lacking in ambition or ideas; what they often lack is access to knowledge, to networks, to platforms that allow them to test their leadership in real-world contexts.

Our Fellowship programme is designed to immerse young leaders directly in the machinery of governance and public service. Through placements in key government ministries and agencies, our Fellows gain firsthand experience in policy formulation, administrative processes, and public sector innovation. This exposure demystifies leadership, showing young people that it is not an exclusive club reserved for the privileged few but a responsibility that requires preparation, dedication, and integrity.

Beyond placements, we provide rigorous leadership training, mentorship from accomplished leaders, and opportunities for international exchange. This multi-layered approach equips our Fellows with the skills, confidence, and networks they need to lead effectively. By combining theory with practice, local insights with global perspectives, we prepare them to navigate the complexities of modern leadership.

Moreover, we actively amplify youth voices within leadership spaces. Through platforms like the Lagos Leadership Summit(LLS), we create avenues for young people to engage directly with decision-makers, challenge orthodoxies, and propose solutions. Platforms like these are not symbolic; they are integral to shaping public discourse and influencing policies that affect their futures.

We also recognize that leadership opportunities must extend beyond government. Therefore, we encourage and support our Fellows in entrepreneurial ventures, social enterprises, and civic initiatives. Leadership is multi-dimensional, and young people should feel empowered to lead wherever they find themselves, whether in boardrooms, classrooms, or communities.

In addressing the gap, we are also challenging the narrative of youth passivity. We position our Fellows as partners in progress, not merely beneficiaries of change. This reorientation is crucial for building a generation that sees itself as capable of driving, not just demanding, transformation.

Finally, our alumni network serves as a living testament to what is possible. As our Fellows ascend to influential roles across sectors, they create pathways for others, demonstrating that with the right preparation and support, young Nigerians can lead with distinction.

The Academy is not just closing the leadership gap; we are redefining what youth leadership looks like in Nigeria, competent, ethical, innovative, and impactful.

As a leader who is deeply committed to mentorship and young people, how do you approach mentoring the next generation of female leaders?
Mentoring the next generation of female leaders is something I take very personally. Every time I sit across from a young woman who is brimming with potential but unsure of how to navigate the journey ahead, I see a part of myself. I know what it means to be overlooked, to be second-guessed, to walk into a room and feel the need to prove you belong there. That is why my approach to mentorship is deeply intentional and rooted in purpose.

I do not believe mentorship is about giving polished speeches or sharing highlight reels. It is about presence. I try to be present in a way that affirms, strengthens, and unlocks something in every young woman I mentor. I share my real stories, the failures that taught me grit, the victories that demanded sacrifice, the lessons that still shape me. I do this because I want them to see that leadership is not about perfection. It is about persistence. It is about courage, clarity, and conviction.

For me, mentorship also means creating access. Many times, what limits women is not ability but opportunity. So I make it a point to connect young women to platforms, to introduce them in rooms where they deserve to be, and to recommend them without hesitation. If I have a seat at the table, I will always pull up another chair for a deserving young woman. That is how we change the narrative.

I also push them lovingly but firmly to be excellent. To be prepared. To master their craft. Because we cannot afford to be average in a world that often underestimates us. I tell them that confidence is built on competence, and leadership is not just about dreaming big but delivering impact. I challenge them to own their space and speak with their full voice.

But I also teach them to be kind to themselves. The pressure on women in leadership can be overwhelming, and I want them to know that it is okay to rest, to ask for help, to be vulnerable. Leadership should not cost you your joy or your sense of self.

And perhaps most importantly, I build community around them. No woman should walk this path alone. We need sisterhood, support systems, and spaces where we can be fully seen and fully supported.

Through LJLA and everything I do beyond it, I am building a generation of women who know their worth, who walk with purpose, and who lead with heart. Because I truly believe that when a woman is empowered, everything around her changes, her home, her workplace, her community, even her country.

Mentorship for me is about legacy. It is about lifting others as I climb, and ensuring that the path is clearer, safer, and wider for every woman coming behind.

What’s the most significant barrier you’ve had to overcome as a woman in leadership, and how did that experience shape your approach to mentoring other women?
One of the most defining moments in my leadership journey was learning to trust my instincts and lead from a place of self-assurance. That moment, where I fully embraced that I belong in every room I enter and that my voice carries weight, has profoundly shaped the way I mentor other women. I have been privileged to grow in spaces that challenged me, but also taught me resilience, clarity, and the importance of building capacity, not just for myself, but for others coming behind me.

So when I mentor young women today, I draw from those experiences. I encourage them to be clear about their goals, to be deeply grounded in their values, and to always lead with integrity. I help them understand that leadership is not about having all the answers, but about showing up with courage, humility, and a commitment to serve.

What I have also come to appreciate is how important it is for women to prepare themselves for opportunities, not just wait for them. I emphasise competence, curiosity, and consistency. I teach my mentees to ask questions, seek feedback, and always keep learning. There is no substitute for being good at what you do, it builds credibility, opens doors, and gives you the confidence to take on more.

Another key part of my approach is showing them how to build and sustain meaningful relationships. Leadership is not a solo effort. I encourage women to build supportive networks, to find mentors and peers they can grow with, and to always invest in their personal and professional communities. These relationships create perspective, accountability, and shared growth.

I also place a high premium on personal discipline. I talk to my mentees about how to manage their time, communicate with clarity, and follow through on their commitments. These are the habits that sustain long-term leadership. It is not about being busy, it is about being effective, purposeful, and responsible with the influence they are given.

Lastly, I remind them to lead with empathy. People may forget your title, but they will always remember how you made them feel. As women, we have the ability to lead with both strength and compassion. That combination is not a weakness, it is a powerful asset. When you lead with empathy, you create environments where people thrive, and that is the true essence of transformative leadership.

So, my approach to mentoring other women is practical, intentional, and deeply relational. I want them to succeed, but more than that, I want them to be fulfilled, to lead with confidence, serve with heart, and leave every space better than they met it. That is what leadership means to me, and that is what I strive to pass on.

How do you maintain personal authenticity while navigating the demands of public service and leadership development?
Maintaining personal authenticity in the realm of public service and leadership development is both a conscious choice and a daily discipline. It requires clarity of purpose, alignment of values, and the courage to remain true to oneself despite external pressures or expectations. For me, authenticity is not negotiable; it is the foundation upon which I lead, serve, and engage with others.

Authenticity begins with a clear sense of purpose. I remind myself constantly why I chose this path: to contribute meaningfully to the development of leaders who will shape a better Nigeria. This clarity anchors me amidst the noise of public expectations, political dynamics, and societal pressures. When faced with difficult decisions or competing demands, I return to this core purpose as my guiding light.

Another pillar of authenticity is values alignment. Integrity, empathy, service, and excellence are not just words I espouse, they are the principles that inform my actions and decisions. In leadership, there are often temptations to compromise, to take shortcuts, or to conform for the sake of convenience. I resist these by holding fast to my values, recognizing that short-term gains achieved at the expense of authenticity ultimately erode trust and diminish impact.

Navigating public service also demands a deep understanding of boundaries and priorities. I am intentional about balancing professional responsibilities with personal convictions. I ensure that the work I do, the policies I support, and the initiatives I champion align with my belief in people-centered leadership. I choose collaborations and platforms that reflect this ethos, and I gracefully decline those that conflict with it.

Authenticity is also sustained through self-awareness and reflection. I take time to evaluate my actions, to seek feedback from trusted colleagues and mentors, and to adjust where necessary. This reflective practice helps me stay grounded, recognizing areas for growth while reaffirming my commitment to lead with sincerity.

Importantly, I practice vulnerability and transparency. I do not pretend to have all the answers or to be impervious to challenges. I share my journey openly, the successes and the struggles, because I believe authenticity breeds connection, and connection strengthens leadership. By modeling openness, I create environments where others feel safe to be themselves, fostering trust and genuine collaboration.

Finally, I prioritize well-being and self-care. Authenticity requires energy, clarity, and resilience. I ensure that I nurture my mental, emotional, and spiritual health through practices that renew me, whether through quiet reflection, reading, or time with loved ones. These moments replenish my capacity to lead with integrity.

In essence, maintaining authenticity is about alignment between values and actions, purpose and practice, inner truth and outward expression. It is about showing up as oneself, consistently and unapologetically, even in spaces where conformity might seem easier. In doing so, I not only honor my own journey but also inspire others to lead with the same courage and conviction.

What leadership skills do you think are most critical for navigating these unprecedented times we live in and driving positive change?
Leadership in today’s world is fundamentally different from what it was even a decade ago. The times we live in are marked by rapid technological disruption, volatile socio-political landscapes, climate crises, and shifting economic paradigms. These complexities demand a new breed of leaders equipped not just with technical skills but with a robust set of human-centric competencies. In my view, the most critical leadership skills for navigating these unprecedented times and driving meaningful change fall into several interconnected categories.

First and foremost is adaptability. The ability to pivot in the face of change, to reassess strategies, and to respond to evolving circumstances with agility is non-negotiable. In a world where certainty is elusive, adaptable leaders do not cling rigidly to outdated models; they embrace innovation, remain open to new information, and foster cultures of experimentation within their organizations. Adaptability allows leaders to remain relevant and resilient, regardless of shifting external forces.

Closely tied to adaptability is strategic foresight. Leaders must be able to anticipate trends, understand global interconnections, and plan beyond the immediate. This requires systems thinking, seeing how decisions in one area ripple across others, and an ability to balance short-term needs with long-term visions. Leaders who possess strategic foresight are better positioned to guide their organizations and societies through uncertainty toward sustainable futures.

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is another cornerstone. In times of crisis and complexity, leaders are called upon not just to make decisions but to inspire trust, manage diverse teams, and navigate the human dimensions of change. Empathy, self-awareness, and interpersonal skills are vital for building cohesive teams, resolving conflicts, and fostering inclusive environments where innovation thrives. High EQ enables leaders to remain grounded, compassionate, and connected to the people they serve.

Ethical clarity and integrity are equally crucial. In a world grappling with misinformation, corruption, and declining trust in institutions, leaders must serve as beacons of transparency and accountability. Integrity is not just about personal virtue; it is about institutional credibility and public trust. Leaders must consistently align their actions with their stated values, even when it is inconvenient or unpopular.

Communication skills have also taken on heightened importance. The ability to articulate a clear vision, to listen actively, and to engage authentically with diverse stakeholders is critical. Leaders must be able to convey complex ideas in ways that inspire action and foster understanding. In our digital age, this also includes leveraging technology effectively to communicate across platforms and audiences.

Finally, collaborative leadership stands out as essential. No leader can succeed in isolation. Building alliances, fostering partnerships, and encouraging cross-sector collaboration are key to solving the multifaceted challenges we face. Leaders must be comfortable sharing power, listening to diverse perspectives, and mobilizing collective intelligence toward common goals.

In essence, the leaders who will drive positive change in these times are those who combine adaptability with empathy, strategic insight with ethical clarity, and communication prowess with a collaborative spirit. These skills are not innate, they can be cultivated through deliberate practice, reflective learning, and an unwavering commitment to growth. This is the model of leadership we champion at LJLA.

When you reflect on your leadership journey so far, what do you hope will be your lasting contribution to leadership development in Nigeria?
Reflecting on my leadership journey, I recognize that every step, every challenge, and every milestone has been part of a broader purpose: to contribute meaningfully to the evolution of leadership in Nigeria. My hope is that my lasting contribution will not be measured solely by personal achievements but by the systems, mindsets, and opportunities I have helped to create for others.

At the heart of my work is a deep-seated belief that leadership is a deliberate craft, not an accidental occurrence. Through LJLA, I have had the privilege of institutionalizing this philosophy, creating a structured platform where emerging leaders are nurtured, challenged, and empowered to lead with integrity and vision. I want to be remembered as someone who helped shift the narrative around leadership development in Nigeria from one of entitlement and opportunism to one of preparation, accountability, and service.

One of the contributions I am most proud of is demonstrating that youth leadership is not a future aspiration but a present reality. By providing young Nigerians with access to governance, mentorship, and global perspectives, we have shown that with the right support, our youth are capable of driving meaningful change today. I hope this approach becomes a blueprint for other institutions, organizations, and governments across the country.

Beyond youth engagement, I aim to leave a legacy of gender-inclusive leadership. I have been intentional about mentoring and advocating for women in leadership, recognizing the compounded barriers they face. My contribution, I hope, will inspire other women to lead unapologetically, to claim spaces where decisions are made, and to build networks that support and uplift one another.

Another aspect of my desired legacy is the emphasis on ethical leadership. In a context where corruption and impunity often overshadow merit, I have championed integrity as the cornerstone of effective leadership. I want my work to serve as a reminder that true leadership is grounded in values, that success measured by impact and service far outweighs transient gains.

I also aspire for my contribution to be seen in the creation of ecosystems that sustain leadership excellence. Through partnerships, alumni networks, and continuous learning opportunities, I aim to build structures that endure beyond my tenure, systems that continue to nurture, connect, and inspire leaders long after I have moved on.

Ultimately, I hope to be remembered as someone who believed in the transformative power of people, who saw leadership as a vehicle for societal progress, and who dedicated her work to unlocking the potential of others. If my efforts contribute to a more competent, compassionate, and forward-thinking generation of leaders in Nigeria, then I would consider that the most fulfilling legacy of all.

Before we let you go, what’s your message to women reading this who are inspired by your story but don’t know where to start their own leadership journey?
To every woman reading this who feels inspired but uncertain, let me begin by saying: your leadership journey does not require perfection, only intention. You do not need to have it all figured out before you take the first step. Leadership is not reserved for a special few; it is the culmination of small, deliberate actions taken with courage, clarity, and consistency. My message to you is simple but powerful: start where you are, with what you have, and believe that your voice, your story, and your vision matter.

One of the most important things I have come to understand, both through my personal journey and my work, is that leadership is deeply personal. It begins with self-awareness. You must first recognise your values, your fears, and your aspirations. From there, leadership becomes about alignment, ensuring that your actions are guided by a sense of purpose. Whether you are leading in a boardroom, in your community, in a classroom, or even within your home, what matters most is that you show up with authenticity and integrity.

I understand all too well the complexities women face when navigating leadership, particularly in spaces where we are underrepresented or underestimated. That is precisely why I created “Brunch & Beyond: A Leadership Chat With Ayisat”, an initiative held in celebration of Women’s Month to bring together over 50 young women in Lagos for a safe, reflective, and empowering conversation. The goal was not just to commemorate a date on the calendar, but to plant seeds of belief and courage in women who are ready to grow but unsure where to begin.

At that event, I shared a message that I believe bears repeating here: fear is real, but so is your strength. Confidence is not the absence of fear, it is the audacity to show up anyway. When you choose to confront fear, rather than be controlled by it, you unlock your truest potential. And when you choose to support other women on their path, you multiply the impact of your own journey.

I also want to emphasize that you do not need to walk this path alone. Seek mentors, build sisterhoods, and surround yourself with people who challenge you to rise. No one climbs without a ladder, and often, our relationships are the ladders that elevate us. The leadership journey is rarely linear; there will be detours, setbacks, and moments of doubt. But every step forward, no matter how small, is a testament to your growth and resilience.

So, to you reading this: your leadership is needed. Not tomorrow. Not when you feel more “ready.” But now. You are enough, as you are, and the world needs your ideas, your voice, your fire. Start with one bold action, however imperfect. Then take another. And another. You are not just stepping into leadership; you are lighting the path for others to follow.